Thursday, 21 January 2010

  • What Is Your Definition of Love?

    Today, I was asked that question by a friend of mine. I said "I think it's the time when you would do anything for them no matter what you are doing or where you are and i think it's that feeling of completeness when you are with that person or talking to that person. It's that feeling when you know that they're happy, you're happy. It's when you trust that person with pretty much your whole life."
    So I was wondering, what is your definition of Love? do you agree or disagree?

Thursday, 07 January 2010

  • We All Want

    We All Want

    We all want that "good morning baby" text from the man you love and care about deeply.
    We all want that last call of the day to be from him when you are about ready to fall asleep.
    We all want that person who would do anything for us at any given time.
    We all want that guy who takes our breath away every time we see him or talk to him.
    We all want that "Perfect Someone" at some point in our life. Sometimes in peoples lives it's when we are young and in our teens, and in other people lives it's when we are more mature and able to handle something serious. Whenever you find that "Perfect Someone" make sure you grab onto them tight, and never let them go...ever.

    By: Danielle Scott

Friday, 01 January 2010

  • What Most Girls Want In A Man

    What Do Girls Look For In A Guy?
    So guys, you have probably asked yourself a million times over and over again what us girls look for in a man.
    Here's what most of us want in a man and want in a relationship.
    We want a real man who won't play us over & over again. We want you to be real with us and not lie to us. You can lie to us once, and we will just probably forget about it and move on, but if you keep doing it over and over again, we will eventually get sick and tired of it and lose our trust in you. We want somebody who just doesn't want sex. We want somebody who can go a day without asking us if we will have sex with you. When we are ready, we will let you know. Just don't pressure us into something we don't want to do. We hate waiting around for something we know may never get. So if you like us, just tell us so we don't have to keep waiting. Eventually if you still haven't told us, we will most likely move on and forget about you. We want a man who we can go to in our pjs and they don't care what we look like: same with us girls, we want you to be able to come to us in your worst looking clothes and we don't care. We want somebody who will be there for us if nobody else is. We want a shoulder to lean on if something bad has happened in our lives. The worst thing to do is to breakup with your girlfriend if she is already having a rough time. We want to be able to act like ourselves around you. It may take us a few times to warm up to you and feel comfortable around you, but don't give up if the first time we hang out, that we're kind of quiet and shy. It just takes time. Don't tell us you love us within the first few weeks of dating. Love takes time, it doesn't just happen overnight. We want to be able to joke around with you and have you take it as a joke. Joking is okay, but we also want the serious side of you too in serious situations where a joke isn't funny. We will think of you as immature if you make a joke when a joke isn't funny. We want to be able to hang around your friends with you like friends do and we want you to hang out with our friends too. Just because we are dating, doesn't mean you stop hanging out with your friends and we stop hanging out with ours. Its nice for us girls to have a girls night out where you can trust us to not do something stupid. We want to be able to trust you to be able to have a guys night out without us having any doubt that you will end up cheating. If you kiss a girl, the next day, tell us. We will eventually find out and it's easier if we find out from you than it is from one of your friends, or somebody else. Be honest with us. If you want to take a break, tell us your honest feelings when you feel them. Don't wait a few days or a few weeks. Don't get mad over little stuff either. Don't get mad if we beat you at a game that you think your so good at, trust me, it was bound to happen someday. We want you to remember our birthdays and give us something (even if it is something small) or do something for us that you wouldn't normally do. On your birthday, we will do the same for you. Instead of saying "baby your hot" say "baby, you look so beautiful today." or something along those lines. We like to be called "beautiful, cute" than "hot or sexy" It's respect. We don't need to talk to you 24/7. We need our space too and so do you. At night is a really good time to talk to us. We have wound down from the day and are ready to talk to you about our day and we want to know what happened in yours too. We want you to ask about our day, what happened, what was good, what was bad and so on. We will ask about yours too. We want to be able to hold your hand and kiss you in public. Movies are a really good date. Scary movies especially. The more cuddling, the better :) Don't make promises you can't keep. We absolutely hate that. Don't say that we will be together forever if we really won't be. Don't promise us a night together, when you would rather hang out with your friends instead. Don't promise us unrealistic promises. That hurts more than anything if we really don't end up together forever. We want real love with real men who treat us like nobody has treated us before in the passed. If you can give us that, then you're pretty much everything we have ever wanted.



Friday, 25 December 2009

  • Has Christmas's Seemed Different than From Before?

    Mine have.This year especially. Midnight Christmas Eve service isn't the same as it used to be. Maybe it's because I question a lot of things in the religious part of it. I don't know. But things were just.....different. Instead of it being a surprise of what your parents got me, I kind of had an idea what it was. Instead of being a little kid and believing in Santa Claus and having it be fun, it isn't anymore. Not like it was when I was a kid. Instead of my grandparents getting me items, I get money and a gift card. We don't sit around the tree anymore and open presents. Instead, they hand us our money/gift if they got us one and we don't sit around it like before. It isn't a surprise when they hand us our money/gift because every year, I know I get this amount of money. I wish things were different. I wish things didn't go by so quickly, I wish things would slow down so we can all just take a deep breath and breath it all in once more before everything we know now, is gone. I miss the days when we all believed in Santa and nobody our age knew any different. Yeah, I guess you could still "believe" in Santa when you're older and kind of pretend that he's real. But it still isn't the same and it never will be the same. I miss everything being a surprise when we were kids. When I'm older, I don't know if I will let my kids believe in Santa when they are younger, and tell them when they are older that he isn't real. I don't want to break their heart when the time comes that I have to tell them he isn't real. I don't remember how I felt when I found out that Santa wasn't real. I didn't find out by my parents. I think it was my cousins or sister. Instead of getting fake play makeup for Christmas, I get the real stuff. Instead of getting stuff I want to play with, I get stuff that I need. Everything anymore isn't what you want, sometimes it's what you need.
    So, how was your Christmas this year? Did it feel different as before? Anything you would've changed?
    Mine was actually pretty good this year.
    Comments :)

Friday, 11 December 2009

  • A few things that really get on my nerves

    So here's just some things that bug me, irritate me, I think are childish that people do, annoy me, and frustrate me.

    (These aren't in any particular order.)

    1. When you are riding on a school bus, and somebody who gets off after you, sits next to you and doesn't move when there are plenty of seats open so you have to get up a stop for few before yours so you can have a seat to yourself.
    This happens to me all of the time, so about 2 stops before mine (I'm one of the lasts) I get up and move.
    I think it's very disrespectful. When a seat near you opens up, move to it! I would do it.

    2. When a person has to call their parent(s) to see what they eat at a restaurant because they don't know what they get.
    Like who does that? I think it's pretty childish that you don't even know what you get when you go somewhere.

    3. When you put your book bag in the other half of the seat on a school bus and somebody moves it to sit next to you.
    If this even happens once to you (unless it's already a full bus), next time, sit on the outside and put your book bag on the inside and don't move if they want to sit next to you.
    This one girl who gets on the last stop (I'm like 4th or 5th to last) did that to me a few times so I just moved to the outside and put my book bag on the inside so she couldn't sit next to me. The bus is a Junior High/Senior High bus, and the Senior High kids get off first (which is me) and this girl is in Junior High, so it's a hassle trying to get up and get off the bus when she is next to you.

    4. When people spell "you, your" like this: yhu or yhur or yhurr.
    Really? I think you need to go back to kindergarten and learn how to spell "you and your."
    Childish.

    5. When people on the end of words multiply the letter. Like this "wordd"
    Really? How is that necessary? Once again, go back to kindergarten and learn how to spell.

    6. When people control you. As in friends or siblings.
    This has happened to me before in both categories more than once. It isn't fun. Stand up for yourself and stop it sooner rather than later.

    7. When people after like 2 minutes resend their IM, Message, or Text Message.
    Ok. You have got to give people time to respond if they are doing something else.
    I usually don't resend an IM until like 5 minutes later, a message I usually never resend, and a text message I wait about 10 minutes.

    8. I hate when people use these phrases "pshhhht." or some of the other really annoying phrases people/teens use these days.
    Grow up. That's like Junior High crap and High School kids, don't do that.

    9. When somebody has had the same hairstyle for more than 3 years. Going from Junior High to Senior High.
    Don't you think it's time for a change? I mean, seriously. You grow from being a little kid to a High Schooler and you still have the same hair style. Get something new. Trust me, you need it.

    10. When you and somebody else make plans, and they cancel them to go hang out with one of their friends.
    That's f*ckin childish. Make plans and stick with them unless you get sick or something else came up which you can't hang out with anybody.

    11. When somebody borrows money from you, and they never pay you back.
    That's just stupid. If somebody doesn't pay you back once, then don't EVER let them "borrow" money from you again.

    12. When you drink and somebody gets on to you about it and gets mad at you for it, but then turns around, and wants to do it.
    Ok just don't do that! Don't get mad at somebody if they want to have a good time once in a while. Just because you can't doesn't mean anything.

    13. When people just take your stuff without asking and then later on be like "oh yeah, can I borrow _____? I think I accidently picked it up."
    What are you supposed to say? "No, you have to give it back" or "Yeah, that's fine. Just give it back when you're done." And they never give it back?
    Really?? That crap really does make me mad.
    It's called:
    1. Ask to borrow something. Don't just take it and tell the other person later. You wouldn't like it if somebody did that to you.
    2. If they say "No." Get over it and don't bring it up again.
    If you bring it up again, it will make things worse.
    If they say "yes", give it back to them as soon as you are done with it.
    It's called respect and trust.
    You break my trust once and you won't get it back for awhile.

    14. On facebook, and somebody posts lyrics and like 10 people "Like" their status.
    WTF? They're just lyrics. It's not like the person who posted them wrote them.

    15. When people have Dark Hair on top and then underneath they have blond or something lighter than the darker hair.
    Personally, I think you look like a skunk. That's what people remind me of when I see them.

    16. When your "Best-Friend" sees you in the hall, and totally ignores you.
    How disrespectful and childish is that crap? To me, you aren't really "best-friends" if you can't even at least say "Hey" when you see each other.

    17. When people expect more from you then what you are willing to give.
    I absolutely hate that. If I want to give it my all, then I'll give it my all. If I want to not give it my all, then fine, I won't give it my all. It's my choice in how much I want to give. So stop pressuring me into more.

    18. When people type in all caps. Like this "I LIKED YOUR SHIRT TODAY."
    I feel as if somebody is yelling at me. So don't use the caps unless you are meaning to yell at somebody.

    19. I see this kid everyday at lunch who has autism get picked on by these other kids and just fires him up. They sit there and laugh at him.
    How the f*ck is that funny? Really??! It isn't. It's sad. You don't know what he's going through and you never will. So just stop making fun of people who aren't like you. Everybody in this world is different. Not one person (even if you are twins) are the same.

    20. When you go through a fast-food or restaurant and you see an obese person order a big unhealthy meal with a soda.
    Not trying to be rude, but can't you at least eat healthy? Or if you get something kind of unhealthy, get a salad to go with it and don't have the soda?
    Did you know that obese people can go on Disibility now? What?? Really? Yes. Really. It's the truth. It's going to make people not want to help themselves because even tho they are unemployed, they will still get that check each month.
    Go get help. Please. For the health of you and for your friends/family. Help yourself.

    21. I hate posers.
    Those people just get on my nerves. I don't understand why they have to try and be somebody else when they aren't.

    22. I absolutely had desperate girls! That just gets annoying. Like I see it everyday on Myyearbook. Girls saying "Single. I hate it. Any takers?"
    Really? That's the most desperate thing ever. Piece of advice: Don't look for love, let love find you and when it finds you, grab onto it and don't let it go.
    Don't put posts on your pages saying stuff like you hate being single and you want to find the one that truly loves you. I understand you wanting to find the one that you truly love and the one that truly loves you, most people do. But it just takes time. Don't say "I hate being single." Most people don't, but that just makes you look desperate.

    23. I hate when girls and some guys also, flaunt their body. Girls who wear a bra and panties and put it on these sites like Myyearbook. And you have these guys that only show their abs in their pictures.
    Girls: Cover it up. Have more respect for yourself. It isn't all about what you look like, it's about who you are as a person not about what you are. It makes you look easy and guys take advantage of that. They think that since you are barely wearing any clothes on the picture, that it will be just as easy for you to send him nudes. Don't do it. You don't know who the person really is, unless you know the person and you have talked and hung out with them in person. But if you're from California and he's from New York. You don't know who he is, he could be a pervert. Save yourselves from the crude world out there. And guys: not every girl wants a guy with a nice body. It doesn't hurt, but it's more about personality then what you look like.
    Just cover yourself up a bit, and you will be just fine.

    24. I hate when people say that they "aren't pretty enough." Don't think bad about yourself. You are pretty. Every single person is pretty. So don't say you're not. Don't say you're ugly, because you're not. If you say that you're ugly, it makes you have worse self esteem then if you get up in the morning and say "Damn, I look pretty darn hot today." Self esteem and self confidence makes you have more beauty then any bit of make-up. Stop putting yourself down on a level that you don't want to be on. It doesn't help anything at all. Make positive comments on how you think you look. If you don't think something looks right on you, then ask your mother, sister, friend...anybody that you trust and I'm sure they will give you the answer that you are looking for.

    25. I hate when people get mad when people say "nigga, negro, nigger...etc." It's not an insult, really. Black in spanish is Negro. It's just nigga and nigger are different forms of that word. Stop taking it so seriously. It's really not that big of a deal. It's not like us white people can call each other those names, it wouldn't be right.

    26. When these girls go on sites like Myyearbook and just feed for attention. That's all they want. There's this one girl on there who always posts stuff like "I'm in a make out mood, any takers?" Like really? Then all these guys post comments like "I am" "Definitely" and stuff like that. Really? I don't understand why so many people go online to get the attention that they aren't getting outside of their online world. I absolutely hate those attention getter little wh*res on sites like that. Grow up and stop being a little kid.

    27. When you go into a Retail Store and the employees are watching every move you make like you're going to steel something. Last year at our local WalMart this one older lady came up and asked us every 5 seconds "Can I help you find something today?" and was following us. We were in the nail polish isle and I wanted to see what this color looked like because sometimes, you can't always go by the color that you see in the bottle, so I open it up and just put a dot on that little plastic thing, and this lady starts yelling at me because I could get charged with Vandalism. There was no sign or anything around saying to "Please, don't open up bottles of nail polish. It's against company policy." or something like that. That same woman followed us to the register and we had forgotten something, so we had to go back and get it, she followed us back there and asked "Is there anything I can help you ladies find today?" We were like "No. I'm fine." And she follows us back up to the registers.
    Why do people always think that the teens are all about stealing stuff? Yes, some do, but others don't. Just because there's a few bad ones out there, doesn't mean that the rest are exactly the same.
    If we need your help to find something, don't worry, we will come and ask.




    Well that's all for now. I will think of more later, and when I do, I will add them.
    Thanks for reading :)
    Come back for more in a few days.

    Danielle Scott
    December 11th, 2009
    Updated: December 20th, 2009

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