So here's just some things that bug me, irritate me, I think are childish that people do, annoy me, and frustrate me.
(These aren't in any particular order.)
1. When you are riding on a school bus, and somebody who gets off after you, sits next to you and doesn't move when there are plenty of seats open so you have to get up a stop for few before yours so you can have a seat to yourself.
This happens to me all of the time, so about 2 stops before mine (I'm one of the lasts) I get up and move.
I think it's very disrespectful. When a seat near you opens up, move to it! I would do it.
2. When a person has to call their parent(s) to see what they eat at a restaurant because they don't know what they get.
Like who does that? I think it's pretty childish that you don't even know what you get when you go somewhere.
3. When you put your book bag in the other half of the seat on a school bus and somebody moves it to sit next to you.
If this even happens once to you (unless it's already a full bus), next time, sit on the outside and put your book bag on the inside and don't move if they want to sit next to you.
This one girl who gets on the last stop (I'm like 4th or 5th to last) did that to me a few times so I just moved to the outside and put my book bag on the inside so she couldn't sit next to me. The bus is a Junior High/Senior High bus, and the Senior High kids get off first (which is me) and this girl is in Junior High, so it's a hassle trying to get up and get off the bus when she is next to you.
4. When people spell "you, your" like this: yhu or yhur or yhurr.
Really? I think you need to go back to kindergarten and learn how to spell "you and your."
Childish.
5. When people on the end of words multiply the letter. Like this "wordd"
Really? How is that necessary? Once again, go back to kindergarten and learn how to spell.
6. When people control you. As in friends or siblings.
This has happened to me before in both categories more than once. It isn't fun. Stand up for yourself and stop it sooner rather than later.
7. When people after like 2 minutes resend their IM, Message, or Text Message.
Ok. You have got to give people time to respond if they are doing something else.
I usually don't resend an IM until like 5 minutes later, a message I usually never resend, and a text message I wait about 10 minutes.
8. I hate when people use these phrases "pshhhht." or some of the other really annoying phrases people/teens use these days.
Grow up. That's like Junior High crap and High School kids, don't do that.
9. When somebody has had the same hairstyle for more than 3 years. Going from Junior High to Senior High.
Don't you think it's time for a change? I mean, seriously. You grow from being a little kid to a High Schooler and you still have the same hair style. Get something new. Trust me, you need it.
10. When you and somebody else make plans, and they cancel them to go hang out with one of their friends.
That's f*ckin childish. Make plans and stick with them unless you get sick or something else came up which you can't hang out with anybody.
11. When somebody borrows money from you, and they never pay you back.
That's just stupid. If somebody doesn't pay you back once, then don't EVER let them "borrow" money from you again.
12. When you drink and somebody gets on to you about it and gets mad at you for it, but then turns around, and wants to do it.
Ok just don't do that! Don't get mad at somebody if they want to have a good time once in a while. Just because you can't doesn't mean anything.
13. When people just take your stuff without asking and then later on be like "oh yeah, can I borrow _____? I think I accidently picked it up."
What are you supposed to say? "No, you have to give it back" or "Yeah, that's fine. Just give it back when you're done." And they never give it back?
Really?? That crap really does make me mad.
It's called:
1. Ask to borrow something. Don't just take it and tell the other person later. You wouldn't like it if somebody did that to you.
2. If they say "No." Get over it and don't bring it up again.
If you bring it up again, it will make things worse.
If they say "yes", give it back to them as soon as you are done with it.
It's called respect and trust.
You break my trust once and you won't get it back for awhile.
14. On facebook, and somebody posts lyrics and like 10 people "Like" their status.
WTF? They're just lyrics. It's not like the person who posted them wrote them.
15. When people have Dark Hair on top and then underneath they have blond or something lighter than the darker hair.
Personally, I think you look like a skunk. That's what people remind me of when I see them.
16. When your "Best-Friend" sees you in the hall, and totally ignores you.
How disrespectful and childish is that crap? To me, you aren't really "best-friends" if you can't even at least say "Hey" when you see each other.
17. When people expect more from you then what you are willing to give.
I absolutely hate that. If I want to give it my all, then I'll give it my all. If I want to not give it my all, then fine, I won't give it my all. It's my choice in how much I want to give. So stop pressuring me into more.
18. When people type in all caps. Like this "I LIKED YOUR SHIRT TODAY."
I feel as if somebody is yelling at me. So don't use the caps unless you are meaning to yell at somebody.
19. I see this kid everyday at lunch who has autism get picked on by these other kids and just fires him up. They sit there and laugh at him.
How the f*ck is that funny? Really??! It isn't. It's sad. You don't know what he's going through and you never will. So just stop making fun of people who aren't like you. Everybody in this world is different. Not one person (even if you are twins) are the same.
20. When you go through a fast-food or restaurant and you see an obese person order a big unhealthy meal with a soda.
Not trying to be rude, but can't you at least eat healthy? Or if you get something kind of unhealthy, get a salad to go with it and don't have the soda?
Did you know that obese people can go on Disibility now? What?? Really? Yes. Really. It's the truth. It's going to make people not want to help themselves because even tho they are unemployed, they will still get that check each month.
Go get help. Please. For the health of you and for your friends/family. Help yourself.
21. I hate posers.
Those people just get on my nerves. I don't understand why they have to try and be somebody else when they aren't.
22. I absolutely had desperate girls! That just gets annoying. Like I see it everyday on Myyearbook. Girls saying "Single. I hate it. Any takers?"
Really? That's the most desperate thing ever. Piece of advice: Don't look for love, let love find you and when it finds you, grab onto it and don't let it go.
Don't put posts on your pages saying stuff like you hate being single and you want to find the one that truly loves you. I understand you wanting to find the one that you truly love and the one that truly loves you, most people do. But it just takes time. Don't say "I hate being single." Most people don't, but that just makes you look desperate.
23. I hate when girls and some guys also, flaunt their body. Girls who wear a bra and panties and put it on these sites like Myyearbook. And you have these guys that only show their abs in their pictures.
Girls: Cover it up. Have more respect for yourself. It isn't all about what you look like, it's about
who you are as a person not about
what you are. It makes you look easy and guys take advantage of that. They think that since you are barely wearing any clothes on the picture, that it will be just as easy for you to send him nudes. Don't do it. You don't know who the person really is, unless you know the person and you have talked and hung out with them in person. But if you're from California and he's from New York. You don't know who he is, he could be a pervert. Save yourselves from the crude world out there. And guys: not every girl wants a guy with a nice body. It doesn't hurt, but it's more about personality then what you look like.
Just cover yourself up a bit, and you will be just fine.
24. I hate when people say that they "aren't pretty enough." Don't think bad about yourself. You are pretty. Every single person is pretty. So don't say you're not. Don't say you're ugly, because you're not. If you say that you're ugly, it makes you have worse self esteem then if you get up in the morning and say "Damn, I look pretty darn hot today." Self esteem and self confidence makes you have more beauty then any bit of make-up. Stop putting yourself down on a level that you don't want to be on. It doesn't help anything at all. Make positive comments on how you think you look. If you don't think something looks right on you, then ask your mother, sister, friend...anybody that you trust and I'm sure they will give you the answer that you are looking for.
25. I hate when people get mad when people say "nigga, negro, nigger...etc." It's not an insult, really. Black in spanish is Negro. It's just nigga and nigger are different forms of that word. Stop taking it so seriously. It's really not that big of a deal. It's not like us white people can call each other those names, it wouldn't be right.
26. When these girls go on sites like Myyearbook and just feed for attention. That's all they want. There's this one girl on there who always posts stuff like "I'm in a make out mood, any takers?" Like really? Then all these guys post comments like "I am" "Definitely" and stuff like that. Really? I don't understand why so many people go online to get the attention that they aren't getting outside of their online world. I absolutely hate those attention getter little wh*res on sites like that. Grow up and stop being a little kid.
27. When you go into a Retail Store and the employees are watching every move you make like you're going to steel something. Last year at our local WalMart this one older lady came up and asked us every 5 seconds "Can I help you find something today?" and was following us. We were in the nail polish isle and I wanted to see what this color looked like because sometimes, you can't always go by the color that you see in the bottle, so I open it up and just put a dot on that little plastic thing, and this lady starts yelling at me because I could get charged with Vandalism. There was no sign or anything around saying to "Please, don't open up bottles of nail polish. It's against company policy." or something like that. That same woman followed us to the register and we had forgotten something, so we had to go back and get it, she followed us back there and asked "Is there anything I can help you ladies find today?" We were like "No. I'm fine." And she follows us back up to the registers.
Why do people always think that the teens are all about stealing stuff? Yes, some do, but others don't. Just because there's a few bad ones out there, doesn't mean that the rest are exactly the same.
If we need your help to find something, don't worry, we will come and ask.
Well that's all for now. I will think of more later, and when I do, I will add them.
Thanks for reading :)
Come back for more in a few days.
Danielle Scott
December 11th, 2009
Updated: December 20th, 2009